"I prefer being single and unmarried than stay with a man who treks" - Lady says

A Nigerian businesswoman, Anthonia Umerah, has asserted that she prefers to be single than date or marry a man who treks.

This assertion from the lady follows after a Facebook user identified as Ami Mimi, wrote on her page that prostitution begins when a woman feels she's too beautiful to date a struggling man.

Reacting to the post of the lady, the businesswoman stated only people who haven't experienced struggling will make such assertions.

"Either beautiful or ug ly, everyone should. Choose the life they want for themselves. Na person wey never experience Whàt struggling means will say this n0nsense, she wrote.

Me for example....I prefer to be single than date or marry certain categories of men that will introduce me to their struggling lifestyle. Struggle your struggle alone bro! Don't involve me.

I learnt to be very vocal about my choices from men. Men are very straight forward when it comes to their choices in woman.

Few days ago, I meant a new man...just few minutes into our conversation....he asked me why I am single and I told him it is my choice. I equally asked him and he started wailing that women he likes don't like dating him be the does not have a car which is a l0w self esteem problem on his own part that he is yet to realize. The proceeded to ask me..."I hope you are not like other women who can't date a man who doesn't have a car".

I'm I don?t like men who trek. I prefer to be single than date or marry a man that will introduce me to his struggling lifestyle - Nigerian businesswoman says certain he expected me to give him a pick-me response to massage his l0w self esteem and say I am not like them but I disappointed him and told him I am like them!
I don't like men who trek. I love men who have their own car and men who are comfortable.

And that's it! That was the end of our discussion. Don't ask me s1lly low self esteem questions next time.
A man will be very strategic when choosing a woman but expect her not to have choices.
When a woman states her choices, she is labeled a pr0stitute and all sorts of other things."