A woman, who transitioned into a man when she was still a teenager, has shared her regrets while detailing its effects on her body as she transitions back to her original gender and welcomes a child.
On June 3, 2024, Prisha Mosley, 26 gave birth to a healthy baby boy via C-section.
What is remarkable is that until about two years ago, Mosley identified as a man.
In her attempt to change genders, she pumped her body full of testosterone.
At 18, Mosley, who was born female, had her healthy breasts removed and was left with a mangled and scarred chest.
Sadly, the procedure has messed up her hormones, making her suffer greatly.
When Mosely, who has detransitioned, saw a doctor because she missed her period, she laughed when he asked if she could be carrying a child. Though, she was in a relationship with her boyfriend, she assumed she was infertile due to the procedures she subjected her body to when transitioning to a man.
"I still can't believe I got pregnant," she told writer Kirsten Fleming. "And I still can't believe he's healthy."
Sadly, motherhood came with a myriad of complications and medical issues.
Mosley is in unchartered waters, being the first of a small group of detransitioning women who become mothers.
Medical interventions such as cross sex hormones can affect fertility, and Mosley started using testosterone when she was still developing.
"Every single thing that happens with the female body, especially when they are carrying and birthing a baby, has a purpose," said Mosley, adding that her body's mechanisms were greatly affected by testosterone.
As a young teen, Prisha Mosley was sexually assaulted. She was anorexic and suffering from mental health distress, but she was convinced by trans activists and therapists that she was transgender so she decided to transition.
After being experimented on by doctors under the guise of "gender-affirming care," she's now sharing raw, intimate details about her unexpected but very fraught path to motherhood.
"I could go on and on how tremendous that weight is," Mosely, who is now an Independent Women's Forum Ambassador, said of speaking out.
"But what's worse is that it can happen to other people. The pain of imagining that someone else could feel or experience what I am experiencing makes the pain of being a public case study numb. It doesn't compare. No one came and saved me when I was little. No one told me the truth."
Mosely said she now knows the truth and it hurts.
Her body has been ravaged. She says her liver is big, her insulin is high. Her uterus, bladder and vagina atrophied. Her hormone imbalance caused the baby to be big, and her hips were too small to deliver vaginally.
She explained: "My muscles were used to carry a baby in ways that my hips couldn't accommodate. I am in so much pain."
She notes that there is no standard of care for detransitioners.
In a short Kelsey Bolar documentary, "Prisha Mosley: A Detransitioner's Pregnancy Journey", Mosley said doctors simply don't know how to treat her.
"It's not good news, but it's honest news," Mosley said, adding her previous doctors and therapists who treated her for gender dysphoria were "so sure [in removing her breasts and pumping her with testosterone]. It was promise. I fully believed it because I needed to. I didn't transition because I was having a good time. There was no neuroscience to change my brain, so I had to edit my body."
Mosley's gender confusion started at a young age when she discovered gender ideology online. She was suffering from severe anorexia, anxiety and borderline personality disorder and reeling from a sexual assault at 15, which resulted in pregnancy and a miscarriage.
Her eating disorder affected her emotional maturation and physical growth, specifically in her hip area.
Mosley (right) as a teen
At 15, she socially transitioned to male and at 17 she started testosterone injections. A year later she had a double mastectomy, performed by a plastic surgeon in North Carolina.
After living as a man in the trans community for a few years, she realized, in therapy, that gender was not her issue.
She detransitioned and is now suing eight of her medical practitioners, alleging they misled her into pursuing medical procedures and interventions that have turned her into a patient for life.
Mosley is particularly haunted by removing her breasts. She now has painful "rocks" that have formed under her chest, or what her doctor says are milk masses stuck under scar tissue with no outlet because her nipples were reattached and are merely, "decorative.
My doctor said some breast tissue was not removed and I have milk coming in as a response to prolactin."
Instead of a soft pillow for her baby, her chest is hard.
"It makes me feel like a monster. I put him on my chest and I don't feel him."
Mosley relies on donor breast milk, which she says has been integral to her son's development. "He spent the first few days of his life searching for things on my chest that don't exist. All he did was throw up. The only thing that stopped it was the donor breast milk," she said.
Mosely, who is also helping to raise her boyfriend's daughter, said she would love to have more kids.
"But it's also reasonable to think I can't survive another pregnancy," she added.
She describes motherhood as physical agony but emotionally fulfilling, adding that it has brought unexpected healing.
"I had to become a home for someone else to let my body become a home for me," said.
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