If you want to keep your relationship, avoid telling you spouse these phrases.
1.Stop Being Petty.
This belittles your spouse and make your spouse keep from being safe to talk with you. And lack of communication kills relationship.
2.How Can You Be So Stupid?
This is an insult. Find a mature way to communicate when your spouse does something you do not approve.
3.Man Up! Be A Man! It Feels Like I Am the One Wearing the Pants in This Marriage.
This makes a man feel disrespected and discourages him from being the man you would like him to be.
4.Your Mother Did Not Teach You How to Be a Wife.
This pushes your wife away and demeans her by destroying her self-esteem.
5.This Is Who I Am, Deal With.
Love is about learning and growing, be open to learning, correction and growing. Love is about sacrificing, give your partner the chance to build you to his or her taste.
6.Shut Up!
Don't silence your spouse's voice, thoughts and contribution. This is emotional abuse. A man or a woman cannot build the family alone, perfect home is built by the contributions of the man and woman.
7.Get Out of My House.
No matter who pay's rent or bought the house, the house belongs to both of you. Don't issue threat just because you are angry, you are digging a pit you will fall inside later.
8.I Should Have Never Married You, My Friends Were Right.
In moments of anger, don't question all the years of love you two have invested.
9.I Want A Divorce.
Don't threatened to quit the marriage, just to make your spouse change. She might dare you one day.
10.I Have Made the Decision and That Is Final.
Don't be a dictator in your marriage, that ruins partnership.
11.You Prostitute.
Just because you suspect your spouse is entertaining another, whether this is real or perceived; don't label your spouse, it solves nothing.
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