1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear "
You're in a Relationship with someone, and their presence intimidates/scares you, they even INTENTIONALLY scare you via words and actions, you can't express your mind before them out of fear.
This isn't a RELATIONSIP but A BONDAGESHIP
Run oh.
2) SOMEONE YOU CAN'T/DON'T TRUST
If they keep breaking your trust, or for TANGIBLE reasons, you can't and don't trust them with your financial secrets, emotional secrets, then why marry em?
They won't even let you even hold their phone, be wise oh.
Someone you can't trust with your Life ain't someone you should Marry. E go choke.
3) SOMEONE THAT ISN'T PROUD OF YOU.
For whatever reason, maybe for financial reasons, the job you do, or your family background, or a physical disability maybe, no matter what, you deserve Love, and should be with someone that is proud of you.
A person who is ashamed of you, doesn't want to be seen with you in public except in private doesn't actually Love You.
Marriage to such persons will only be full of heartache, disrespect and abuse.
4) SOMEONE YOU CAN'T PLAY WITH
I always tell people jokingly, "Don't marry someone you can't call bighead"
Don't marry someone you can't joke and have fun with.
What is Marriage without Fun?
Miscarriage.
Even God laughs.
5) SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T FEAR GOD
The Fear of God above all things will constrain a Man or Woman to always be nice no matter the TEMPTATION or PROVOCATION.
Fear anybody that doesn't Fear God.
If you truly value your life and wellbeing, the fear of God is one very important factor you must look out for in anybody you want to marry, not just a fine face and body.
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