Relationship doctor, Joro Olumofin has explained with reasons why cheating is a sign of success and an ego boost for Nigerian men.
Having several girlfriends in high school, according to Olumofin, makes a boy seem like a "bad guy." This tendency continues into college, where a man with four girlfriends could be praised for being the "correct guy."
Joro Olumofin discloses that some universities even honor these people by giving out medals for the "ladies man of the year."
Olumofin discloses that having several side girlfriends might result in friends praising you like a "stallion" even after you're married.
He links this way of thinking to deeply rooted thought patterns that are created during childhood and impact a man's decisions on commitment.
In his words:
"Cheating is a sign of Success, Stamina, and an Ego Boost for Nigerian men. In Secondary School if a Boy has 3 girlfriends he's a " Bed Guy " his friends will laud him In University if a guy has 4 girlfriends he's a "correct Guy" - His friends will hail him -Some universities even give awards "Ladies man of the Year" to acknowledge him. As a married man if he has 3 Side cheks. His friends will call him "Idan, Stallion, Rambo" This behavior has been imprinted in his cognition throughout his childhood. When it's time to commit to 1 woman it becomes difficult. Men who are loyal to 1 woman are referred to as Mumu in Nigeria."
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