Lagos socialite, Pretty Mike informs men that it's okay to rant and scream on social media when they are hurt or heartbroken as he disclosed that women aren't the only ones with such privilege.
He took to his Instagram page to reveal that men too get hurt but because society has told him that expressing his hurt makes him talkative or immature, he repressed those hurt, abuses, and cheatings and stayed in a toxic relationship.
Here's what he wrote;
"Na wa ooh.... This our society where a man can't express his hurt without being tagged a talkative or an immature man,how do u expect to know how many of us that have been hurt,abused and cheated on and yet stayed in a relationship ? Yes I've seen a couple of instances where the woman cheats and the Guy stays....
The fact that our ego, as men wouldn't let us come out and cry about our women cheating on us doesn't mean it never happened.......
Often time,the ladies gain sympathy when Dey share their stories with their friends, on the other hand, if a man shares such stories with his male friends he gains Mockery?.....
Lastly, it's easier for women to go online and cry foul and the response would always be in their favor; the usual "men are scum" phrase would surface, but if a man ever comes out, world people will say "He talks too much?, Abeg alot of guys are currently dying in silence......
Oga Instagram community is here, feel free to express ur pain and pour out ur anger... You can't be forming Lagos big boy, working super hard to provide for ur family and Dey will still be Fu*cking madam up and down and u can't say anything because people will laugh u, if u allow depression kill u, Dey will cont the Fu*king in ur Lekki home and send ur kids to go and stay with relatives".
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